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Talking: A more viable option

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It would seem that the best answer for having ideas has become violence. If someone does not agree with what you hold as your own they see it fit to kill you or kill your ideas. However, ideas seem to be having a long shelf life. Look at terrorism. The individuals involved are performing a holy function of removing people against their ideals.

I do not know why it has not hit people that reacting violently to such groups is not working. They seem to be growing stronger daily. Look at Boko Haram; they started in Northern Nigeria, now they are spreading across West Africa. Of course we all know of ISIL; started in Iraq, spread to Syria and now it has a home base in Libya with affiliates and diehard fans across the world. As for Kenya, we went to Somalia to try and curb the menace of Al-Shabaab, but we seem to be more vulnerable than before. I appreciate what the Kenya Defence Forces are doing, and I stand with them, but it is time we sit down and find a more permanent solution.

I think we should all sit down, debate and find the reason why such groups are fighting. The Islamic terrorist groups are fighting to establish Islam as a superior religion and they want everybody to follow it. Whenever they are bombed or killed they appeal to their fellow Muslims for help because they are being discriminated for following their religion. The problem with this is that it works and the groups keep increasing in number and gain support even from non-Muslims.

The issue is that we are all taught that our religions are superior to the rest. Our ‘God’ is the best. Our faithful practices are what define us from other. The other religious groups will all go to hell or damnation for not following our religion. We never take the time to research and appreciate other people’s ideals. Debates today are baseless and have no evidence that can help support or help appreciate each other. It is important to note that no one is correct in a debate. It is all about presenting facts and defending them, moreover respecting the other person’s opinion.

Most of us are afraid today. We cannot question people’s ideals because we always know they will react violently. You cannot ask someone in Kenya where they are from because that would be tribalism (images of 2007-2008 violence always come back). Funny thing is that many people believe their tribes are better and look down upon others and they do not even know how people from the other side look or act like. A Nilote cannot run for a political seat in central Kenya, because the two cultural communities are in competition with each other. People reading this article will be like how can you say such a thing. It is taboo and if you are found out it can amount to hate speech. But it is the truth. It is what people have implanted in their minds. You cannot run for a political office in a certain region if you are not from there. People have strong beliefs and ideals that that would be the best way to foster peace in Kenya.

What if we took time to understand each other and learn about the other community? What harm would that cause us? What if Protestants took the time to learn about the practices of Catholics, instead of calling them ‘idol worshippers’? What if Christians and Muslims talked to each other to look upon their differences and similarities and plan how to live together in harmony? I know many Kenyans appreciated what the Muslims in a Mandera bus did, by standing up against the terrorists to protect the Christian passengers. What if we spread that across the country? Yes, the population of Kenya is made up of 80 percent Christians, but what if we incorporated the other religions, so that we work together for the good of the country? What if we allowed the Middle East to form a government instead of insisting on spreading ‘democracy’? What if we showed love to people we feel are different from us?
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In order to achieve this we need humility; to understand that we cannot impose ideals on others because we believe we are right. We need to talk more and debate with each other and kill the notion that we don’t speak with terrorists or people from the other side of the divide. Ideas can never be killed, but through talking consensus can be reached and people can live with differences, but in harmony.

I am not sure that talking will work. I know I do not understand what the victims plus their families have gone through. However, we need to end this violence that keeps cropping up because of differences of opinions. It can blow out of proportion, and become more than we can handle. I should not be scared to share my views because I am afraid of being killed by someone with a different view. We should learn and respect each other, whether Jew or Christian, two different tribes, white or black, Catholic or Protestant, Muslim or Christian. We only live once on this earth that should be a good enough reason to work together and share what the world gives us.

Let us talk.

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