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We are humans. We get hurt.


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Life is tough. That you have to understand. We are human beings. We get hurt. We cannot protect ourselves forever. We have to be vulnerable for people to love us. However, we get hurt so that we get stronger.

I can sense that you are scared right now. You thought you had it all mapped out. You had seen the future you had together. The little children running around, with yourself ready with a shoe to make them shut up, because you have work to do and you cannot think with them making noise. You had seen me visiting your house and you laughing at me that I was single when you were thinking about a third child.

All those dreams were crushed and now you came back to being single. Though you never reached beyond being friends. All I can say is sorry. Sorry that she decided that someone else was better than you. I can never understand how that feels for you, but I know that you are stronger than you look. I know you can pull through.

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You know as much as I do it is not the end. You cannot spend the rest of your life on one spot. Life moves on and so should you. I do not want to dictate what happens in your life. You have to decide that on your own. I just want to encourage you as a friend, as a brother from another mother, to move on. We still have our lives ahead of us. Let’s not stop living because of one bump on the road. 

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