Love for the women

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The best way to keep a woman happy, is giving her the feeling that she is being loved.

As men we have a habit that as long as we provide and come home early to our girlfriends or wives we always think it is the best show of love. We are always somewhat disgusted when a woman says she does not feel loved and has to be told 24 hours a day to feel it. Well in truth the female species need a sense of direction and protection. They need that feel of love.

I may not be the love expert but I have noticed that if you give a lady that sense of love she will always be attracted to you. Telling her she is beautiful, remembering her birthday, sending her messages of love, giving her your time, respecting her and listening to her input are the sure fire ways to keep a woman faithful and loyal to a man.

It is unfortunate that today men have fallen short of becoming intimate with their partners. We complain when women become difficult and hard yet we are the ones who pushed them. A woman who is insecure about a relationship will always have a plan B. Yes she will do her best to change and make better the situation, however men are very stubborn and we are not easily swayed to change our habits. This of course leads to infidelity and unfaithfulness as the woman seeks other places for love.

It is high time as men we became conscious of our female counterparts needs. It might be unmanly, but remember when you leave your 'boys' in the evening, you will return to her. Go on make time for her, make her feel appreciated, love her and let her know it, rekindle your intimacy and make your relationship fresh and lively.

Doing all this will avoid the headaches and stresses people are complaining about these days. As men we are commanded to love our wives just the way Jesus Christ loved the church, there could not be any better example (Ephesians 5:25).

The only way to keep a woman happy, is giving her love and let the whole world know that she is loved.

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